Legal vs symbolic weddings abroad

What makes a destination wedding a real, legal marriage, and where visiting couples can only have a symbolic ceremony.

Not legal advice. Marriage rules change and local offices interpret them differently. Confirm every requirement with the civil registry or embassy before you book or pay. Disclaimer

The short version

A legal wedding is registered by the local government and you receive an official marriage certificate. A symbolic wedding is a ceremony with no legal effect: lovely photos, no marriage. Many couples do the legal part at home (a courthouse or registry) and the symbolic ceremony abroad.

The legal act is usually done by a civil official: the Registro Civil in Mexico, a district office (Amphur) in Thailand, a town-hall official in Italy or Greece, a court or registrar on many Caribbean islands. A religious or resort ceremony alone is often not enough unless that officiant is licensed and the marriage is registered.

Symbolic only for visiting couples

The Maldives does not let foreign visitors legally marry. Resorts must hold a registration to run symbolic ceremonies, and rules introduced in 2010 carry a fine of Rf 1 million for resorts that break them.

Restricted: usually not possible for visitors

Legal, but the ceremony you see isn't always the legal part

Questions to ask your planner or resort

  1. Is this ceremony legal or symbolic?
  2. Who registers the marriage, and with which government office?
  3. Which certificate will we receive, and when?
  4. Can we get it apostilled before we fly home?
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